Who We Are

Dame Products engineers for sexual wellness by building welcoming community, designing innovative tools, and bringing life-changing education to your bedroom.

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Splotch Group

Alexandra Fine, CEO

Sexologist

Janet Lieberman, CPO

Engineer

91%

men*

39%

women*

Reported they “usually” or “always” orgasm during sex.

5%

men*

23%

women*

Described recent sex as “not at all pleasureable.”

*Based on a study of self-identified heterosexual cis men and cis women.

Closing the Pleasure Gap.

We began our mission to close the Pleasure Gap — the disparity in satisfaction that people with vulvas experience in the bedroom, versus their cis male counterparts. It’s a real problem!

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What we stand for.

The Dame team represents a wide range of ages, genders, ethnicities, backgrounds, and lifestyles. A variety of voices in the lab helps us develop products that address the needs of as many humans as possible!

All toys engineered with feedback from Dame Labs, a community of 10k+ real humans.

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Everything made with reliable components, and all silicone is medical-grade.

Hassle-free returns and a three-year warranty — the best in the biz!

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We passionately and publicly defend reproductive rights, gender equality, and support victims.

what our customers say about Eva II

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

Game Changer.

“I’ve only been able to orgasm during sex maybe twice... Let me tell you, [Eva is] WORTH IT... every time me and my husband have had sex, I’ve been able to orgasm.”

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what our customers say about Pom

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

It was heaven.

“I loved the intensity + settings. I loved that I could use it on my clitoris or turn it upside down and use it on my actual vaginal opening for stimulation there. I tried it in the shower & when I orgasmed with my mouth hanging open under the shower head, I wouldn't have cared if I drowned or slipped.”

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what our customers say about Kip

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

Loving the shape of Kip!

“Kip has fluttering edges and a soft but firm middle, and in my opinion delivers more consistent, flexible, pleasurable pressure and vibration than traditional handheld vibrators.”

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what our customers say about Pillo

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

The best sex pillow out there, bar none.

“The overall smaller profile is great. The weight distribution is great. And the squishiness is great, too. I love the low profile... Love the handles, for torque and power. Also small enough to move around with one hand (or a knee) during sex to reposition it more effectively.”

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what our customers say about Fin

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

Silky smooth in all the right places.

“It's very easy to use with my partners during penetrative play! Also its small, so it is less intimidating to partners and they can still feel like they are in control since it is their hand motions (just with a vibrating twist)”

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Where We’ve Been

Alex + Janet found Dame and develop Eva, the most crowdfunded sex toy in history.

Dame’s second product Fin is the first sex toy allowed on Kickstarter.

Dame gets on a roll, releasing Pom, Kip, and Pillo within 6 months.

Dame sues NYC’s subways for discrimination in advertising.

Featured on The Today Show, New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Forbes, Vice, and more.

Provided 10 million orgasms, and counting