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VIPs earn even more.

Pleasure Seeker

No Minimum Spend

1x points multiplier

Pleasure Advocate

Spend $150+ or 3+ Referrals

1.5x points multiplier

Earn 50 points on tier entry

Pleasure Personified

Spend $300+ or 5+ Referrals

2x points multiplier

Earn 100 points on tier entry

Early access to new products

Free shipping

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How do I join the rewards program?

All you need is an account on! If you haven't made an account with us yet, sign up here. You'll need to create an account to redeem any referral discounts as well. 

The rewards program was launched in November 2019. Orders placed before the launch date are not eligible for retroactive rewards points.

If you have more than one account and would like to merge them, contact customer service at We are unable to adjust VIP Tiers, but can assist in moving points from one account to the other. We recommend using the same email for all purchases for this reason.

How do referrals work?

Referred friends must be first-time customers for both of you to receive referral rewards. Referrals must be initiated through the referral module on the rewards page or using the unique referral link on your account page. (You need to create an account to redeem your rewards.)

Once your friend makes their first purchase over $49 with your link, you will receive your reward. We'll send you an email whenever one of your referrals uses your code to make a purchase. You can also check your 'Rewards History' to see a list of any points that you have received for referrals.

If you receive an error message, there may be a typo or you may need to add a comma between them. If you are still having problems using the email referrals, we recommend using your unique referral link on your account page.

How do I earn points for my birthday?

To receive your birthday bonus on your actual birthday, you must register the date at least 30 days before your birthday. If your birthday falls within the waiting period, you'll receive your bonus after 30 days. We'll send any future birthday bonuses on your actual birthday.

If your birthday had already passed in the calendar year when you signed up, you would receive your first birthday points in the following year.

How do I redeem my rewards points?

Before checking out, ensure that you are signed in to your account. You can generate your discount code on the rewards page or select it from the dropdown at checkout.

You must have a minimum balance of at least 200 points each time you would like to make a redemption. Orders must be over $49 to be eligible for the discount. You may redeem discounts up to $40 off your order using points. Points cannot be redeemed on orders including a subscription product.

Are costs related to shipping and taxes included in rewards?

Points are earned based on your complete order total, including taxes and shipping costs.

What happens to my points if I make a return?

If you purchased the item you’re returning with points, they will be credited back to your account. When you return an item, you lose any associated credit you earned by buying the item in the first place.

Can I combine my points with other discounts?

Unfortunately, rewards credits cannot be combined with other promotions or discount codes.

How do I get free shipping as a Pleasure Personified member?

As a Pleasure Personified member, your free shipping is automatically applied at checkout. Remember to sign in first! Please note free shipping applies only to domestic shipping within the US.

How long will it take for points to be available in my account?

You should receive points in your account instantly once you complete a promotion or purchase. If you made previous purchases under your rewards account email, your points will appear in your account within a few hours.

Do my points expire?

Nope! Your points will never expire.